How To Avoid Troubled Relationships Using Astrology

Astrology shapes the nature of the relationships that will form with each other.

Regarding relationships, getting to know the person next to you is not just a fad; it is necessary, and astrology promises to glimpse this profound issue.

So, today, I will discuss how some astrological combinations you should consider before starting any partnership, be it love or business, before investing time, feelings, and money.

In the first part, I will talk about the characteristics of some planets in astrological signs that a person may have in their natal astrology chart in opposition to others.

Then, I will discuss severe aspects between planets in part two.

Planets in astrological signs that are incompatible

Astrology of natal Mars

When we talk about astrological incompatibility, we are talking about the presence of planets in unfavorable signs and houses for those planets.

Each planet has a designated astrological sign where it functions in favorable parameters but malfunctions in others.

For example, a person with the planet Mars in an earth sign, especially in Capricorn, will be disgusted if he has a partner to share the house with who has the planet Mars in a water sign: Cancer, Scorpio, or Pisces.

Mars in Capricorn gives the most fruitful combination both in terms of ambition and work power, Mars being the vitality and the sign in which it is present being the sum of the rules according to which Mars will work.

In the sign of Capricorn Mars works correctly because a variety of tension catalyzes through an undeniable framework of regulations driving the individual.

Astrology signification of Mars in earth signs (Capricorn, Virgo, and Taurus)

Mars in Taurus is a hard worker, too, and so is the one in Virgo. However, the person with Mars in Capricorn will consider the owners of those who have Mars in a sign other than the Earth sign as lazy. In reality, everyone contributes according to how they let Mars work.

Mars-Mercury harsh aspects

If it is in square, opposition, or conjunction with Mercury, it gives an excess of absolute zeal, eternally critical for order and cleanliness.

Mercury is the physical and psychic expression of compulsion and, in conjunction with Mars, gives the expressions above.

Mars in Capricorn best concentrates its dose of work. For example, Mars in Pisces may exaggerate the work to achieve some intangible goals but will consider that he is not too zealous and that he is the guarantor of divinity: nothing is above him, sensitive to criticism and petty by nature; if someone with Mars in Pisces would work at the gym for the fruition of the physical appearance this works, up to a point, there is no possibility of growth in height, something that can defeat the individual.

Comparative astrology

Mars compared to Mercury in Pisces.

Those with Mars in Pisces will know how to attract individuals to complement them, but they will not admit that they are superior to them, maybe only in extreme cases. However, Mars in Pisces will act virulently in the problem of lying, but irony makes him act the same way.

Thus, the difference between someone who has Mars in Pisces versus Mercury in Pisces is that Mercury in Pisces will be much more subtle. The person with Mars in Pisces will feel it if they try to say a diversion because the one with Mars in Pisces will first make noise to see if he has allies, while the other will already be put on guard by this behavior.

Mercury in Pisces is like a submarine without the radar started, only observing the environment intuitively, and it is prone to subjectivism.

Going with the flow and seeing where it leads makes individuals more adaptable and learn more from the residues of a stage, just like the expression that tells us, “The journey is more important than the destination.”

Among the celebrities who have Mars in Capricorn, we mention the former first lady of the United States of America, Michelle Obama, the owner of Amazon, Jeff Bezos, the singer Puff Daddy, the French gold medalist athlete Renaud Lavillenie, and many others.
Among the personalities who have Mars in Virgo, we can mention Popes Gregory XVI, Pius IX and Pius VIII, respectively Pope Leo X, but also the activists Taya Kyle, theology professor, priest, Czech sociologist, philosopher and activist Tomáš Halík, actors Will Smith, Ben Affleck and Sylvester Stalone, but also writers Ludwig Heinrich Mann and science fiction writer, inventor and futurist Arthur C. Clark.

Astrology of Mars in Cancer

People with Mars in Cancer are always on the attack; they are sour and prickly individuals and tend to attack people more deeply; on an emotional level, they are more prone to tantrums, passive-aggressive behavior, and constant pressure from their peers, or at least if they feel cornered in matters of immediate family and inner security. Some turn to sports to channel this deep need for protection.

Astrology of Mercury in natal chart

People with the planet Mercury in an air sign work best as objective observers but also as people whose hands and the skills to grasp things with their fingers are very well defined: Mercury in Gemini and, especially, in Virgo, where it is exalted, on when a person with Mercury in Pisces for a person with Mercury in a water sign, especially in Pisces will seem so apathetic in reactions but also clumsy.

Also, Mercury in Pisces favors the creation of narratives of all kinds, where language in several directions and meanings can be most effectively put to use.

Thus, a person with Mercury in Virgo can have, as the case may be, obsessions related to arrangements going pathologies like obsessive-compulsive disorders.

At the same time, Mercury in Pisces can be a genius who creates forever, on the conveyor belt, like a robot effectively, being able to be a writer who finishes a novel, let’s say, in record time.

Among the people who have Mercury in Gemini, for example, we can mention the following: the actress, singer, and model Heidi Klum, the sculptor Jean-Barnabe Amy, the athlete, basketball player, golfer Babe Didrikson Zaharias, and the models and actresses Ingrid Bisu and Irina Lăzăreanu and many writers, among whom we can mention the famous writers George Orwell, Thomas Hardy, Jean-Jacques Rousseau and Ian Fleming and the poets William Butler Yeats and Dante Alighieri.

Among the people having Mercury in Pisces, we can mention the followers: the cartoonist, writer, animator, voice actor, creator of the TV series The Simpsons and Futurama – Matt Groening, the composer and singer Ravi Shankar, the actress Sharon Stone, the comedian singer, composer, and actor Eddie Murphy, the quantum chemist and biochemist Linus Carl Pauling, the computer scientist, businessman, co-founder of Google corporation – Larry Page, the physicist Keith Bruechner, the politician Paddy Ashdown, the actor Ion Besoiu and the astrologer, author, school teacher, developer of Cosmobiology – Reinhold Ebertin.

Astrology of the Sun, Uranus and Saturn in natal chart

The Sun is the binder of men, while Uranus is disruption and rupture; in other words, Uranus doesn’t care about the group as much as it cares about the individual, so the division of a group is inevitable for someone who has to say Uranus the ruling planet, whether it’s an essential stellium in Aquarius or Uranus it is near the ascendant, or in the tenth house, in the sixth house or the twelfth house, when it already gives various pathologies from antisocial behavior, isolation and many others.

Thus, if you marry someone with Uranus in the twelfth house, he can take you to the mountains for apparent peace and self-sufficiency but can go, in extreme cases, to dissociative behavior and severe personality disorders. He will feel uncomfortable being part of any team, including a large family, and, in severe cases, he will self-flagellate, self-mutilate, being able to go even more extreme: murder and suicide, of course if he also has the Moon in Capricorn.

Those who have Uranus in poor condition will be able to commit random crimes; the unpredictability of individuals will be the only constant in their lives of individuals, and who will hint that something is wrong with them, some will commit suicide, making sure that they will dismember, throwing themselves in front of the train or causing a car accident, death being of a very violent nature. The level of dissociation of your “I” will be so extreme that it will no longer find enough ways to fragment.

How astrology impacts other area of life

Self-mutilating or, in severe cases, he will commit suicide by ensuring that he will dismember himself by throwing himself in front of the train or causing a car accident. The level of ego dissociation will no longer find sufficient ways of division. Thus, someone with the predominant Sun in the identical astrological houses mentioned in the case of Uranus will be downright maddened by such behaviors right from the start. Capricorn does not care; he is a despotic, cruel dictator and will maintain the status quo for stability.

Among the personalities, we can mention the writer of horror and dark fantasy, the director, the actor Clive Barker, the actress, singer, and model Paris Hilton, the musician Kurt Cobain, the director Steven Spielberg, the politicians Robert F. Kennedy and Marie Le Penn, the revolutionary Ernesto Che Guevarra and Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg but also criminal personalities such as: Ian Brady, Paul Bernardo, Robert Buell, T. Cullen Davis, John Salvi, the serial killer Charles Manșon and the mass murderers: Thomas Hamilton and Paul Bernardo and the politician, the Nazi mass murderer Adolf Hitler.

Astrology of Moon in Capricorn in natal chart

The Moon, as the planet of emotions, is in its house only in the sign of Cancer and is exalted in Taurus. But the worst sign where the Moon can be is that of Capricorn. These individuals do not necessarily feel the need to socialize; this month can give sociopathy and psychopathy; they don’t necessarily feel the need to socialize because they don’t have an emotional connection and they don’t feel pity. Of course, they mimic human emotions as much as possible for social structure and integration, but those close to them may never see them cry, be unable to bond with children, or even want to hold them in their arms.

Among the famous people who have the Moon in Capricorn, we can name the following: John Lennon’s killer – Mark David Chapman, Robert Kennedy’s killer – Sirhan Sirhan; murderers Robert John Bardo, Georges Vigreux, serial killer Adam Lanza; serial killer and cannibal Albert Fish, student, mass murderer, gunman in the Columbine High School massacre – Eric Harris, and of course German politician, Nazi and mass murderer Adolf Hitler.

Astrology of the planets in aspects to each other

Challenging aspects of Moon to Uranus in natal chart

Harsh aspects of the Moon to Uranus in the natal chart can do more harm than good; now it depends on where the Moon or Uranus is, if they are in their sign, or if they are in mutual reception, that is, they are in each other’s house.

For example, the Moon is in Aquarius, and Uranus is in Cancer. Harsh aspects of the Moon to Uranus can bring emotional instability; the protective nature of the Moon is unbalanced by Uranus, so things like temper tantrums, emotional outbursts, and breaking and throwing things can be how those aspects manifest in times when they feel overwhelmed.

In extreme cases, they can give partners who throw the relationship into chaos, going as far as criminals who kill at random: famous criminals like Ted Bundy, mass murderer Eric Borel, Patrizia Reggiani, Christian Gerhartsreiter, and many others have problematic aspects of the two planets. Acting and other activities where violent verbal outbursts, violence, and mayhem can work into a proper form in quotes: actors Lorenzo Lamas, Steve Carrel, athlete Jay Silvester, boxer Lorris Stecca, baseball player Norris Hopper, and many others have challenged Moon’s aspects to Uranus.

Challenging aspects of Moon To Pluto in natal chart

Aspects from the Moon to Pluto can bring to the surface deep suffering and past trauma, often manifesting in possessiveness, jealousy, and manipulation.

The Moon, in lousy relation to Pluto, square, conjunction, and opposition involves insecurities that lead to deep fear and instability that underlies childhood abuse of many kinds.

The individual can cope with this by manipulating; he may sometimes feel insecure and find it difficult to see things correctly. Unsure of themselves and their emotions, they will always try to intuit the emotional component of the other, not necessarily correctly, and will often make wrong assumptions due to toxic behaviors in the family: escape behavior or severe addiction of a parent, partial absence or total of a parent – thus, the individual must compensate for the basis of an emotional bond, i.e., an impossibility.

The individual may be very restless at best all the time. Tantrum-type situations can occur when the individual feels pulled into the mechanics of an apparent problem, without stake, in which he consumes himself; effectively, they will be the order of the day as a result of all kinds of disorders. However, insecurity, poor self-image, and codependency express the terrible placement of Mercury, such as in the 12th house, Pisces, or the 8th house.

Among the possessors who have severe aspects of these two planets, we can mention: serial killers Joseph Vacher, Michele Profeta, Donato Bilancia, Thomas Dillon, Colin Norris, mass murderers James Huberty, Thomas Hamilton, murderer Jesse James and serial killers, cannibals, and necrophiliacs Ed Gein and Jeffrey Dahmer, serial killer and cannibal Karl Denke, musician and serial killer Charles Manson, mass murderer and author of the 2014 Isla Vista massacre in the California, United States Of America and Nazis: Artur Axmann, Albert Frey, Helmuth Friedrichs, Wilhelm Frick, Julius Streicher, the terrorist, the co-founder and leader of the Red Army Faction in Germany: Gudrun Ensslin but also political people such as Georges Ernest Boulanger, Robert McNamara, George Washington, astronaut Buzz Aldrin but also famous athletes such as boxers Nate Brooks, Wallace Smith, and Muhamad Ali, athletes like Denise Lewis, Robert Leroux or artists like David Bowie, Robert Duval, Leonardo di Caprio and Pink.

Challenging aspects of Moon To Saturn in natal chart

Harmful aspects of Saturn’s Moon can bring childhood issues to the fore, especially the relationship with father figures, especially the father. However, depending on the case, other figures may be a dominant grandfather, other surrogate or adoptive father figures, or other male relatives. It can bring depression and many other psychological problems derived from the things mentioned above due to a faulty emotional bond between the child and the father figure. It can also cause suicidal thoughts; Saturn is the ultimate stress tester and crusher of the Moon’s gentle nature and can effectively shake up emotions to levels incompatible with forming proper bonds with people.

Among those who have these severe aspects we can name the following: politician and diplomat Henri Kissinger, astrologer, author, professor and cosmobiology developer Reinhold Ebertin, nuclear chemist Glenn Seaborg, actor Ben Stiller, politician and lawyer John Kerry, Catholic priest Jean- Francois Maurer, the fugitive, involved in money laundering – Richard Baldwin, the murderer and associate of the murderer Charles Manson – Bobby Beausoleil, the robber and murderer Clyde Barrow, the mass murderer, the author of the 2014 Isla Vista massacre – Elliot Rodger, the mass murderer Anders Breivik, the murderer of John Lennon – Mark David Chapman , the mass murderer, the perpetrator of the Dunblane massacre, Scotland – Thomas Hamilton, the taxi driver, the mass murderer, the perpetrator of the 2010 Cumbria massacre – United Kingdom Derrick Bird, the criminal mother of his own children – Geneviève Lhermitte, the child molester and murderer – Nathaniel Bar-Jonah, the murderer, cannibals and necrophiliacs Jeffrey Dahmer and Ed Gein, the authors of the 1999 massacre in Columbine United States of America from Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold, the criminals Ted Bundy, Jesse James, the murderer Bob Berdella and many others.

Challenging aspects of Moon To Jupiter in natal chart

Troubled aspects of the Moon to Jupiter denote emotional disconnection from maternal figures, especially the mother. However, there can be other maternal figures: grandmother, mother-in-law, or surrogate mother. Aspects can indicate a deficient mother, an absent mother, or a domineering and aggressive mother, and the individual can overlook people’s flaws and fall to the point of accepting almost anything. But these problems can intensify, as the case may be, the hatred and dominance that the mother exercised over the individual turns into a problem that the individual will, in turn, project onto other vulnerable people, aggressing and abusing them and killing them in extreme cases.

For example, in the case of the painter Vincent Van Gogh (born 30th March 1853, 11:a.m. Roding Rating: AA), who has Jupiter and the Moon closely conjunct at less than 4 degrees, he also has the South Node conjunct Jupiter in the 6th house, so the precarious relationship he had with his mother causes all types of states from melancholy to depression but also more complex ailments.

Suspected of schizophrenia and bipolarity, researchers concluded, several hundred years after his death. His disorderly lifestyle, drinking problems, vicious fights, and other antisocial traits are a mirror in his works, leading researchers to conclude that he suffered from multiple mental issues. Finally, he cuts off his ear and, after a few years, commits suicide.

Looking in depth into Vincent Van Gogh astrology chart

If you have at least a medium proficiency in astrology, you can analyze aspects of his natal chart on the left.

Other personalities with challenging aspects of the two planets are the following: actress Julia Roberts, writers H. G. Wells and Charles Bukowski, adult film actor Rocco Siffredi, the spiritual leader, the politician and the philosopher Mahatma Gandhi, poets André Breton and Sándor Petőfi the poets and novelists Boris Pasternak and Walter Scott, the musician and serial killer Charles Manson and his criminal associate Bobby Beausoleil but also other serial killers such as Tony Costa, Gerald Gallego and the author of the Isla Vista massacre Elliot Rodgers, Nazis like Joseph Goebbels, Wilhelm Gustloff, Ernst Kaltenbrunner and the Nazi politician, dictator and mass murderer Adolf Hitler, victims of criminals – cartoonists Jean Cabut and Stéphane Charbonnier but also other less resonant victims like Cedric Seabrooks, Matthew Brunolt, Rachel Entwistle but also the well-known pacifist and anti-Nazism activist member of the White Rose group – Sophia Magdalena Scholl.

Challenging aspects of Mars to Venus in natal chart

And, finally, the meanings that the planets Mars and Venus give when they are unfavorably linked. Depending on where these two planets are, people have trouble relaxing in the presence of others, especially the opposite sex. Relationships with the opposite sex and the way they perceive the opposite sex are problematic. The possessors will develop strong opinions on how the opposite sex should be, should act, and so many other things and will sexualize them a lot, being perceived by them more as sex objects rather than normal human beings. These individuals’ needs are solid and constant during their lives and will always be perceived as old-pervs by youngsters because these urges will not stop even in the elderly age.

The spark-like nature of Mars combines with the slow, harmonic nature of Venus, so it’s like a car stuck in first gear; the individual tries to accelerate but cannot and will rev the engine.

This individual will have troublesome relations with everyone; if you have a boss in this category, you will regret being near him very quickly.

As a boss, he will try at least one time to harass you. If he has Pluto-Moon, if his reach does not touch you, he will try to dispose of you, criticize you, make fun of you, belittle you, and so on; depending on his mood, it’s his only way to relax. So, you better be helpful with him and not attack in any way because he will react, causing damage you never anticipated, both mental and physical, as the case may be.

So, we can list the following: the fortieth American president Bill Clinton, the American senator and presidential candidate Hilary Clinton, the Polish presidents Andrej Duda, the last country of Russia – Alix Victoria Helena Louise Beatrice von Hesse-Darmstadt, the ninth Israeli president Simon Perez , British naval officer James Stirling, Archduchess Gisela A of Austria, co-founder of Sony – Akio Morita, engineer and founder of Bentley – Walter Owen Bentley, businessman Andrew Carnegie, pilots Přemysl Glinz and Jaroslav Juhan, actors Bruce Willis, Franco Nero , actor, comedian, member of the film series Month Python – Terry Jones, co-creator of the animated series South Park – Matt Stone, actor Oliver Hardy, singer, lead singer of the band Rammstein – Till Lindemann, Michael Jackson, the twenty-fourth French president the leading soloist fracoise Hollande the Romanian president Klaus Verner Johannis, the president of the Republic of Moldova Maia Sandu, the surgeon, the inventor and the creator of the execution device Guillotinne – Guillotine, the businessman and the creator of the Ponzi scheme – Bernie Madoff, the serial criminals Marcel Petiot, the postman, mass murderer , author of the Edmond massacre United States of America – Patrick Sherrill, mass murderers Anthony Clement, Erminio Criscione, serial killer and cannibal Hadden Clark, mass murderer, author of the Dunblane massacre Scotland – Thomas Hamilton, serial killer, the cannibal and necrophile Jeffrey Dahmer, the serial killer and cannibal Nathaniel Bar-Jonah, the student, the mass murderer shooter in the Columbine High School massacre in the United States of America Eric Harris and the politician, the Nazi mass murderer Adolf Hitler.

Recapitulating these dissonant aspects of the planets in one’s astrology chart can, of course, lead you to the question of whether you sleep in bed with the enemy in quotes; well, maybe you sleep if combinations of these aspects occur.

For example, Venus combinations with Mars, concurrent with Uranus with The Moon or with Pluto or any other combination should send you a warning signal, of course. As you may have noticed, of all the people listed above, there are a few that fall into more than one category, which leads us to the conclusion that the craziest people, the cruelest people, serial killers, cannibals, and mass murderers have several combinations of unfavorable aspects between planets.

But, of course, the entire astrology chart must confirm such a placement if only one unfavorable aspect unfolds, and how the other planets interact about that aspect must be researched.

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